Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Symbolism

Last week I ran late, twice. Rush-rush-rushing to bundle the boys and all of their assorted paraphernalia into the car. Off we trundled down the road, thankful to have finally jolted myself into action. On both occasions, it was the same set of red lights when I stole a second to breathe. Each time it was a glance at my left hand that prompted me to turn the car around and double back home. Not an easy assignment from the position I had landed in the traffic either. But some things are worth running even later for.

I realised on the second day I was running late, just how important two small, gold, rings, are to me. I've never felt quite so attached to them as I do right now. I'm not a bling kinda girl. Appreciate the fine stuff and love admiring jewels on others, but personally, I am content with a few treasured gems. However, I was taken back by my overwhelming desire to feel those rings on my finger. To be with me throughout the day ahead. Maybe after all Scott and I have experienced of late, these golden bands we exchanged some seven and a half years ago are more than a representation of our union. Instead, a symbol of our continuing devotion to one another... and that is what really matters to me at this moment in time.  

We will never make hand models, this is a certainty. But I love these photos. Because despite the recollection of being a giggling pile of nerves and feeling frozen stiff throughout the entire ceremony, I have few memories of that moment. And these, capture it for me. Beautifully.



13 comments:

  1. I feel lost without my rings. I don't notice them too much when I wear them but am very conscious when they're not on, I feel them missing, just doesn't feel right without them.
    Sending lots of love to you and Scott xoxo

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  2. Well worth going back for. I fell naked without my ring (I have a hybrid). Take care x

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  3. So gorgeous, Julie.
    I also feel naked without my rings.
    Mine aren't fancy by anyone's standards - but they're that priceless symbol, aren't they?
    I can't bear to part with them for cleaning, so they're lacking lustre too!
    Hubby, however, not so attached! He doesn't see them the same way.
    I find his wedding band everywhere and get quite hurt by it!!!

    I love thos sweet pics too.
    :-) xx

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  4. I feel naked without my rings too, lovely photos and such good memories. xx

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  5. I tend to look at my own rings and it is like reliving the moment and the closeness that we shared and continue to share.

    Whoever took those pictures did a great job!

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  6. Beautiful, those photos are so intimate & lovely-a beautiful reminder of love & promises & a future together.

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  7. So beautiful! It always feels weird when I take mine off too, usually only when they're getting cleaned :) xo K

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  8. I never ever ever take my wedding band off. I could have to dig in mud, or deal with poo and I still never take it off. I just cant, so I totally understand while you would turn around and go back to get them. I would have done the same!

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  9. I never take my rings off, but my husband hardly ever wears his. It makes me cross cause I read so much into what they mean for me and I cant understand how he doesnt!

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  10. They are such a special reminder. I have such an indentation when mine are not there that it's very noticeable and I feel totally naked too. The only time mine comes off is when i'm cooking something that needs mixing with hands. My hubby has to take his off all the time for work (he's a surgeon) and he actually lost the original!! Down the laundry chute with his scrubs!! Beautiful reflection of how much your relationship means - thanks for the reminder!

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  11. Beautiful photos. I know just what you mean. I never take my rings off and neither does my husband. Even when he's renovating so his is pretty trashed! They all need cleaning and polishing but, like Shar, I hate to part with them.

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  12. Beautiful. I know just how you feel. I have done the same thing before too.

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  13. Oh Sweetheart, I totally *get* what you mean. Treasure those reminders of the gorgeous bond you and Scott share. J x

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