Meal times were turning into a bit of a daily nightmare around here. Then about a week or so ago, I threw in the towel. Tired of having food pushed, refused or thrown on the floor, coupled with a filthy attitude... one night I turned the spoon back on the aggressor and walked away. To my complete and utter surprise, silence. Silence AND every last morsel of food demolished.
Sometimes I overlook when my babies are ready to go to the next stage. I don't always see it coming and certainly don't realise when it's right in front of me. Like a clingy mama duck, I ruffle my feathers and fight to protect and nurture and keep them close. But this little duckling is now twenty months old and I almost can't believe it. He will be two in such a short time and he WILL want to do things on his own, for himself. He WILL insist on this. Instead of battling it, I need to embrace it. Watching him feed his own hungry mouth these days, I couldn't be happier. Children really have an intuitive way of teaching themselves... and their Mama's.
How adorable!
ReplyDeleteI'm guilty of the same Mummy trap.
Being puzzled/frustrated by Magoo's behaviour - and then finally (usually in the middle of a night) realising that I've been ignoring or misreading the signs.
What a big boy you have on your hands now!
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Look at the concentration going on there with the peas! Well done Julz for recognising exactly what this gorgeous boy wanted/needed! Btw, I loooooooove this kids hair!
ReplyDeleteOh wow, look at his gorgeous chubby hands!
ReplyDeleteHe's beautiful. You're doing a great job!
Rach x
Just beautiful. I used to love watching my son as a toddler try to demolish a tub of yogurt. Your baby is a growin'! (love the first shot with tongue helping the concentraton!) xo
ReplyDeleteOh Julie! You clever girl. *Sigh*. I wish I could have such success on Planet Baby! J x
ReplyDeleteWhat a good little man!! Very clever approach - sometimes you need to know when to back off hey. Good lessen for us all to learn :)
ReplyDeleteAgree, I have these moments all. the. time.
ReplyDeleteLoving the pics of your growing little man!
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Lovely pics and what a big step!
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Melissah from Coastal Style
I love your son. You've probably gathered that from all the swooning comments over him! Just so cute x
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't that long ago that we were going through the same stage. I don't know why I was fighting it, meals times are so much more pleasant now.
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ReplyDeleteHILARIOUS!
Look how proud he looks :)
Max taught me a similar lesson. Only ... It was his day sleeping. I didn't realise he was ready to drop to one, & kept forcing two on him.
So glad he showed me, as I've been HANGING for him to drop to one sleep!